You know sometimes when we hate the person, we sometimes go to the extent to make sure they are never well-liked by anyone, we will criticise them to the max, we will make sure word spread that they are not-so-nice. But then, we always forget, that they are someone's daughter, they are someone's sibling, they are someone's friend, they are someone's lover, they are someone's hope and rock. We forget that they were once nice and that they are actually nice and all this things happened to them, well its just not something that they asked for and want. To be honest, i do not quite like this girl. All because of the obvious reason, she talks bad about others, she belittle people, she acts as though the world is her's.. When i suddenly realise, that i know nothing about her and except her name. All her acts are ones that i hear from people. And i was being one-sided on her part. Honestly, i was ashamed of myself when i learnt how easily i labelled her when i dont even know the real her. Anyway, I was blog-hopping when i came to this blog. In it, the blogger writes about her friend and how her friend has messed up her life. The blogger admitted that she cried and stated how sad she was at her friends actions. I read and read and read, when i suddenly realise that the friend she was talking about was the girl i quite dislike! I was so shock at the post and sad too, till i cried. Imagine if it was my sister, or my bestfriend, or my cousin, or my lover, or just someone i happen know.. How wud i feel then? Imagine if it was me! All night long i keep thinking, and i ended up forgiving the girl for being too imperfect. I came to realise that the girl i quite dislike turned out like that, not because she wanted it but because of the situation she was, the surrounding, and all the problems she's been going through. I became to pity her, for having to be in such a situation and becoming like that at such a young age. If she had a different surrounding, a different situation, she probably would not have turned out that way, she would have probably turned out to be a well-mannered, polite, intelligent girl. If only..
Therefore, moral of the story, do not be one-sided. A coin has two sides, what more a story. Try and understand their situation, their surrounding and the problem they face. Do not dislike people just because of their actions. Get to know them, then you label them. If not, the shame will be on you for being sucha loser.
Probably will blog when i come back, after shopping.
Ugh, its not like anyone cares or what.
Okay bye bye! (: