{Thursday, March 5, 2009} 8:47 PM
I am having a headache. All this talks about friendship, just makes my head spins.

If she is really your bestfriend, obviously you would try and help her to change for the better. No matter how much she dismiss you, or ignore your advice, if she is your bestfriend and you love her like you said you did, you would obviously NEVER GIVE UP and KEEP TRYING to change that bestfriend of yours. You asked for opinions how to help your friend, and you should disgest the suggestions, not say that you have already done it and it doesnt work and whatever crap. You asked for the opinion, you should be open to accept it as what it is.

If she is really your bestfriend, you would give her a chance to be friends with others. You cant possibly expect the whole world to revolve around you. There is no rule saying that you can only have one friend you know. You should be understanding and let your bestfriend have a chance to have other friends. What, does your bestfriend have a label that says she's your bestfriend and only allowed to be friends with you? And now you're getting even by doing what your bestfriend has done to you? Having new friends and ignore your older friends? What is this, a toy shop? You like you use, you dont like you change?

FRIENDSHIP TAKES TIME AND EFFORT, AND NO ONE SAID THAT YOU CAN FIND A BESTFRIEND THAT WILL STAY WITH YOU WITH JUST ONE GLANCE. IT TAKES TIME AND EFFORT.
Im not an expert or such, but looking from the situation, only jst one advice : be open-minded and learn to cherish what you have.

I am having a headache. All this talks about friendship, just makes my head spins.